I think the "private forum" is a good idea. I think for those who "support" others it is like a umm gosh what work am I trying to think of now. Not a treat, but more like a special thank you for all the people they reach out to, either by sending a few dollars, or holding a cyber hand to those in crisis.
I think I might be one of the few here that would "shy" away from the private forum, even when I might "qualify" for going there. I feel comfy here and this is where I will stay ..
I think those of us who don't have access to the forum should instead of complaining, be happy and be supportive of those that do visit the private forum. There is so much going on here to keep one busy all day..
Just my opinion... You do not have to agree with me.