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Old Sep 17, 2015, 01:13 PM
Anonymous37918
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You're so welcome I'm glad I could help!

I so understand how you feel. It really p*sses me off, too, that some people can just act in whichever way they please and get away with it. Sometimes, I've thought about starting to behave like that as well, but I just can't do it! I can't be an a-hole - I feel so miserable afterwards if I try..

What I have done is become more careful about who I choose to devote my time to. Expecting people to treat me as well as I've treated them means nothing - people treat you exactly how they want to treat you, no matter what you do. I do believe in giving people second, and even third, fourth, etc. chances if it seems they want to change and do better. But some people are just so messed up, and unwilling to change, that there's just nothing you can do to make them behave better. There's just no way. Then, I think it's better to walk away. Better for you. Save yourself! Find people who deserve your time and energy.