Agree, agree, agree. Have you read The Five Love Languages? I read it for my marriage and my kids and realized I knew my parents loved me but never felt it because they didn't speak my love language. And, one of mine was touch and I was rarely hugged. So, they could say all day long that they love me but I never FELT it. I've also realized that I can say I love you to people but I rarely have the feelings behind the words. My T. is one of the first people (other than my husband) that I felt the feelings behind the words.