He told me I make him feel desperate. I said its his problem not mine but I was shocked he told me this. I also make him feel guilty and mad, happy and attached,he said he feels sympathy and he feels like I destroy him.
I like that he is open and honest about bad things too but I feel so bad for hurting him so much I know I didnt respect his boundaries sometimes and he said he feels like he is bad T because of me. I never wanted him to feel that bad but I also feel very hurt when he has these boundaries. It seems that always one of us would feel very bad.
Boundaries make so much pain.