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Old Sep 17, 2015, 04:28 PM
guilloche guilloche is offline
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My T normally doesn't ask about homework either. I *think* it might be that Ts don't want to take over the session at the beginning, in case you had something else important come up that you need to talk about (but I'm guessing).

For example, imagine you had a huge fight with someone at work, and got fired! For some people, if your T started the session asking about homework, they might just follow T's lead, and start discussing homework... and not end up talking about the fight at all.

So, my guess is T is trying to give you room to bring up what you want/need to, and not over control the sessions.

Have you tried bringing it up at the beginning of the session? Just saying, "I did my homework and was hoping we could talk about it!" ?

PS: My T has asked about my homework exactly ONCE. It was the week where, when he gave me the assignment, I flat out told him I couldn't/wouldn't do it. I knew that I did not have the answers he was looking for, and it was a waste of time, and I didn't want him thinking that I was going to come back with something for it. I thought I was pretty clear, but next session, he asked if I did it . Ugh.