Dear G, I really needed that hug yesterday. Thank you for adapting the way you hug me so that even with my shoulder injury it could be a firm, comfy hug. I wish I could hug you every day. There is something about hugging someone you know you can trust that is so comforting. I, like Henri Nouwen, the one Catholic priest and writer I respect, have this massive longing for my body to be held in a non-sexual way.