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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
Destroying emotionally, making him desperate, making him feel like a bad T, making him feel guilty. I told him he is not bad or guilty but he feels like this because of hugging me. I said his hugs always helped me so much but he said it wasn't therapy and it destroys therapy.
I think the problem is his thinking, he thinks that hugs were something bad, his supervisor told him it is, he believes in him more then in me. Maybe his damned supervisor blames him. I know he talked to him, he told me.
He always was so happy, he always smiled, I would never thought he felt that bad.
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Oh, so he's young/new. If his supervisor thinks that's bad he's going to love that he dumped on his patient... [emoji16] ...
You can't feel like you need to take care of your T. Yes, therapists are people, complete with feelings and problems. But it doesn't belong in the room with you. That's half the fun of therapy to me, is to test his patience and resilience. I'm really awful to mine. I don't feel bad about it.