WinterRose, why not ask him to explain his thoughts much more for help in understanding.

If you want to, you can read about transference/counter-transference many places, including this site: www.guidetopsychology.com .

Some types of therapists don't encourage or welcome transference and some can't handle it or can't handle it well. It sounds to me as if he may be acknowledging his own difficulties or boundaries.

I hope you'll talk much more about this as with any topic that needs to be expanded on until you feel comfortable.

ECHOES