Hmm...yep, I missed your point. Sorry 'bout that.

I agree, and I am blamed by my family when my kids "aren't getting enough attention at home." Instead of my husband being accountable, I take the blame all on my own.

I'm not playing the victim, don't get me wrong. I know I should spend more time with them, but when I'm doing my homework or trying to clean house or even get something made for dinner, I'm accused of neglecting them. But because my husband works outside the home, he's 'allowed' to come home and do nothing, not even play with or pay attention to our boys.

I have an old fashioned family and the women think I should be the sole caregiver. I hate it when they accuse me of neglecting my kids!