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Old Sep 17, 2015, 09:06 PM
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Dear most recent T,(still have to submit, yet another form),

You'd once said for me to listen to my gut. It's usually telling me something.

I'm in need of exploring the gravitational pull and laws of attraction. And why do I sometimes pull in, what seems cutesy on the surface, but with that underlying, eh, I dunno underneath the surface?
I don't use the rbf as that can cause as many problems as the pleasant and polite. Guard up, but not a brick wall. Then I gather info and then ponder and decide. (Hopefully my friend ignores this if lingering...no threat, no más)

Something brought out conversational chit chat from a colleague, whom then said she didn't know him from a hole in the wall but couldn't stop with the questions. (Score one for her) Was nice to be considerate in parking location. But one wrong part of the same route, dunno.

Along with a particular retweet during the debate as far as another, dunno

It's nice to be sweet on someone, but actions do speak loudly. I did happen to wear a certain pair of dress pants that have a certain effect, by virtue of my boss recognizing that all these clothing stipends aren't taken lightly. Which back to (), 'tis also nice to not be objectified and 'tis nice to know how the other spends and 'tis nice to just stop with façades and reach that point of vulnerability where honesty takes over with trust. Granted there's one aspect to this that was tough in therapy, the distance. I wanted to revisit parts of that discussion, because there's a difference in 'the pattern.'

Me