Interesting question Hankster! I'm trying to wrap my head around the idea of accountability to my T. On the whole, I don't feel accountable to her but sometimes when I'm struggling with a concrete issue (something very specific like paying bills, making a call I dread, or addressing something I've been procrastinating about...) I keep her updated as to my progress. I've never asked her to ask me about something but I do feel a certain satisfaction in telling her when I've been successful and when I haven't been successful she's never disapproving or disappointed. We're still okay even when I mess up. Which is a new experience for me.