I am certain my supervisor despises me. I really would not mind if she had a reason, but I've given her none. She responds to my friendly "hello" with an icy glare and it has been that way from my first day. Again, I don't mind people hating me so long as they have a reason. Believe me-if you get to know me, you'll find plenty.
I believe she has it out for me.
I will provide an example:
Before I went to work on Sunday, I was scheduled to come in Monday, Thursday, and Saturday. When I checked again that night, I'd been taken off completely. Surely a mistake, I thought. So, I checked the next morning. Still off. And a couple hours later. Still off. It wasn't until 15 minutes before I had to be there that my schedule was returned to its former state. If I didn't compulsively check my schedule, they would've been out of luck.
Today, she used my being late as a result of that incident to claim I've made a habit of being tardy. I've only been late once. I called in another time to say I might be late, but wasn't. Not the same thing. That's called being courteous.
I know she makes the schedules and I believe she did this on purpose. But that sounds crazy.
I know she has something against me. She won't come when I page her for a customer, she calls while I'm busy to tell me what a sh** job I'm doing, and she always looks at me as if I've tinkled upon her wedding dress.
I refuse to allow her to make work miserable, as I am well aware she hopes her behavior will cause me to quit. Everyone else is very nice. Customers are friendly; coworkers are helpful and encouraging. She is the only difficult person, and unfortunately, she's my boss.
Should I complain to someone about her? And how would I do so? Do I really have enough reason to?
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