For me, I know I can do X or am allowed to feel Y (even there I would never use allow). Allow just is not a word I think, for me, fits. I would be offended if the therapist thought they got to tell me the obvious.
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Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
Last edited by stopdog; Sep 18, 2015 at 12:55 PM.
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