Many people would love to contribute to help fayerody. I would love to help her because I have been in such situations myself. However, this being a supportive psych forum, has separated some people , unintentionally. I remember when I performed a kind act to somebody and this person felt bad because they could not show their appreciation in some monetary way.

Monetary donations may be what a person needs but manyy who would like to help cannot afford to and I am certain that Fayerody knows and understands this. Perhaps a simple thank you would have been the best reward rather than private memberships.