In our system...we are all equal...nobody controls another, so nobody tells anyone else what to do unless they are anti-system.

We ask each other.

With all that said....have you tried asking them their names or if they want one? Numbers are fine.

I do automatic hand writing too if they aren't coming in loud and clear. After awhile, I discovered that their voices were sounding the words as they were written. So now we have perpetual head gab happening.