OP here, thanks so much for all of your replies. Seriously.
I think just the fact that I don't trust her completely (and to be quite honest I don't think I ever did) plus her taking 85% of what I earn (yes, she's THAT expensive) should've been enough for me to walk away sooner. But I wanted to make sure I wasn't overreacting and/or letting my 'congnitive distortions', or so she says, feel and speak for me.
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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
Some of the items on your list I would need more context for, like "change your job," and forgetting an appointment is OK with me if it's once and an apology is forthcoming, but the others would all be deal breakers. Change your medication without physician oversight? Calls you by your girlfriend's name - what is up with that?
Run.
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Perhaps I should have clarified, I'm a girl. So is my girlfriend. Still, our names are in no way similar so I don't find a reasonable explanation as to why she keeps calling me my girlfriend's name, let alone her weird obsession with her and our relationship.
As for the appointment thing, that didn't bother me at all but the point I wanted to get across is how "forgetful" she is. It's not that she forgot one appointment, it's
that plus her forgetting to send me emails plus her mixing names and events (sometimes she doesn't even remember if I told her something or not, or asks the same questions more than once).
Again, thank you all for your responses.