I also think itīs a great thing if you find a person who can be that mother figure for you but I donīt think thatīs easy. Itīs perhaps easier to find an older women to be your friend but if you want more closeness, like wanting her to also act like a mother I think itīs hard to find that person.
I know mean acting like a mother in that way you want her to comfort you, that you can call her and tell her "everything". Itīs much harder when youīre already an adult yourself but I would really want to know such a woman if it was possible.
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Originally Posted by SkyscraperMeow
Sorry, but I don't think there's a more fundamentally lonely and heatbreaking phrase in the world than 'self-parent'. It takes someone who is already at a deficit and tells them that they have to do yet more on their own. There's nothing wrong with having needs and seeking fulfilment in others for those needs, as long as nobody is harmed in the process.
What's the big problem with wanting a mother figure? I am sure there are many ways to meet and spend time with older women in productive and friendly fashions. Why not just accept the need for what it is?
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