Have you had the opportunity to talk to a T about this? If so, what did he/she say about it?
As you I feel uncomfortable when my mother talks about me moving back, I know I react upon the fact that she believes that my problems would go away only if I moved back. As she doesn´t want me to have a life on my own and as I should be happy with spending my weekends at her place and such. Sickening.
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Originally Posted by nutters
Everything you said here I could say exactly the same. I live a ways away from mine as well and my mother always says she would like it if I moved back. Every single time I hear this it really messes with me.
I want to get a better understanding of my rejection, I know some of the reasons but I feel like there's more to it and I want to know why I still feel this way as an adult. It's fair to say I'm completely emotional cut off from them.
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