My son will turn 21 soon. He used to bathe regularly but then this past year or so he has stopped doing it regularly. He was into drinking heavily and has anxiety and depression. He is on medication and sees a therapist now. He has a gf but NO other friends. He has pushed all of his friends away because they don't smoke weed. He commutes to college 3 days a week. He rarely brushes his teeth. I honestly don't know how his gf can stand him. He doesn't say much to me although he is getting better. He plans on moving across the country in January after he graduates college. I dont' know how he plans on holding down a real job if he keeps this up. Right now he has a part time job but it is not that great so the caliber of people that work there are about the same with the hygeine. Why are people like this? Is it just laziness? Or is it the depression/anxiety? He doesn't take care of any possessions either. His room is terrible his car looks like the hoarder show with trash in the back seat. Of course he has never bought anything on his own.