Thats exactly it I think, i can try to talk to him and express my feelings until I am black and Blue in the face but nothing ever changes. And then when I just dont bother anymore he makes me feel like all our problems are my fault.
Who knows how this will play out, I certainly cant forsee us being together for much longer unless something changes, and sadly I have run out of idea of how to imporve our marriage.
Its now all in his hands, if he is content and happy with the way things are and does not see an issue nor a reason for imporvement then I guess its just a matter of time before we crash and burn.
If he decides we are worth fighting for and pulls his act together then theres hope yet for us.
untill then I guess what ever happens will happen.