Thank you for responding. I think I need to write that second letter, but, I do not feel ready to do so yet. This is difficult and I really detest confrontation, particularly when dealing with detachment. I do know, however, that in this instance, detachment is the proper thing to do. Ughhhhhhh....

The good thing about changing is that I understand so much better why I made bad choices, was attracted to unsafe unavailable people. But, now I feel good knowing that my recovery is worth working on, boundaries are worth setting and that I deserve love, respect and regard.

GraceD