hey listen..EVERYONE is somewhat selfish! do me a favour! i don`t remember if ti was Socrates or Aristo who said that it`s the human nature to think first of all about yourself-and tell me WHAT`S wrong with it?

seriously! if you throw away all that you have been taught for a second and clean your mind of all the society judgmental stuff-do you HAVE to feel "selfish" and "in need to be a better person?"

as long as you casue NO harm to anybody else why would it be really selfish?
just something to think about.

i understand how you may feel. maybe some insecurity...but it`s all about being more time around and getting used to things.

i would sugest that you try not to take things too personally - becasue this is the internet and ANYHTING can be posted here.

but one good thing- you know that whatever it is-it has only as much meaning-only as much power over you as you LET it have! it`s all in your mind, it`s all in your head and you can make the choice!

cheers
"LadyMCB"