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I love this post. It is so insightful. I do the same thing with breaks from T--I anticipate them and have a hard time connecting because of the anticipation of the break!!

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I went for a drive this morning, and the sun was out, the trees lovely and green and I had memorys of the different times I've spent with T and everything felt GOOD!

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Yay!!!!!!!!! Object constancy......something I have been working on.

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I understood then what missing someone is really about, it is our only connection to them when they are not insght and its part of the relationship, to miss them, to think fondly of them, to carry them with you.

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This is an awesome insight. I never thought about it like this, but of course you are right. So interesting, the missing becomes a way to hold them close to us.

Thanks for this post. I got a lot from it!!!!!

And good luck with the long break. Sounds like you are ready to handle it.