Thank you. I will definitely be talking to my doctor about this. I am just suffering ...I don't know if it's me, my work, society's pressure on women -- you know, lots of responsibility but don't ask for authority, please -- or what??? And I will be visiting my parents soon and that just triggers all sorts of stuff. I have to figure how I will cope with it or even if it's worth going. They are getting old and there is legal stuff to take care of so I cannot avoid it. I feel stressed and feel myself already thinking defensively when I think about how to cope just talking to them. Amazing. Every time I try to minimize the impact those people have had on my life, and reclaim my life, I realize how MUCH impact they've had. If I was rich, I just would stay at a hotel and not stay with them but I have to be there for two weeks ...