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Old Sep 21, 2015, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by PerryJoeJimBob View Post
I feel I have handicapped her by giving bits and pieces.
You know, I understand this a lot. I've personally had problems opening up to me GP, because I've only given her bits and pieces over the years. It was only about a year ago I actually told me GP that I was bisexual, though she say she kind of knew. The thing is now it's difficult to get enough time to actually tell her about "me", the real "me", because appointments are so short and we actually have real life health concerns to work on.

When I first started seeing my T, who is a sex therapist, I told myself to get put it all on the table...tell her all the details...hold back nothing. It felt so good to just let go. Now, when we speak there is no guilt or embarassment when I tell her things. I can tell her about my gay sex fantasies and desires, and the impact it has on my heterosexual sex life. That way we can deal with the issue, not the guilt over being bisexual.

I know it can be difficult, but if you have this dedicated person listening to you and helping you...let it all out because holding back is only going to hurt you by limiting what your T can do for you.