I appreciate your positive attitude to what I shared in my post. In a way Iīm glad that I didnīt do as "everyone else" and just went to bed with someone random in my teens but at the same time when now being over 30 it feels more odd than someting to be proud about.
To me itīs now more of anxiety than anticipation as I think Iīve missed out on many years during I could have had a relationship. I know many people talk about bad sex and regretting sexual experiences but on the other side of the spectrum I find myself (and others) with no experiences at all.
Itīs a bit comforting though that some of you here shared that the first time having sex didnīt change you that much. Perhaps itīs much "in the head" to this.
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Originally Posted by RunnerIM
My first time was when I was 16. Serious boyfriend and had always been curious. For me didn't do a thing. I think that is kinda awesome you still are & you are old enough to make a decision to do casual sex or wait. The anxiety is totally normal but at the same time isn't the anticipation awesome��
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