Are u at point where u can name identities is it very distinct and separate from the host like Amanda said. It comes later after dx. If u dont experience it like myself it might be hard for u to relate. Different example For instance, a female with a southern accent mid 20s but u as the Host grew up in the north all ur life...at that point call her Minerva if she doesnt give u a name when u, the host ask...Do each one like this?