Im getting mixed up on what thread im in LOL. I was just thinking, perhaps your daughter can tell you his address if she dated him.

Also, i think i told you earlier that the very same thing happened t me while I was at university. I remember the bank manager telling me at the time (16 yrs ago!) that if the ATM had a video I would have been able to identify the person and the bank would be liable to refund the money. I notice that you were saying the bank has tapes that you have to look at. Perhaps if you can make a formal identification and press charges the bank will refund the money. I dont know if things are different in the USA. Good luck with this.