i would say that i get attracted to extroverted people ( confident or not). especially in groups it's nice that he/she will do most of the talking. As long as they don't mention me being more quiet then most others there. They might like it but in my head I immediatly think they think i'm weird.

Also in 1 to 1 conversions I prefer an extrovert, they can lead the conversation and i can follow up. talking to someone like me gets me way out of my confortzone since they quiet aswell, which gives them more time to form a (negative) opinion of me, when i'm trying to awkwardly keep the conversation going.

I know it's a bad trait for me to count on others to start/keep the conversation (going)