Here is what I've had to learn about people....what was the intent. Do you think she was being malicious about it because she knew that you wanted to go there or maybe she didn't think twice about it. Do you know if she knew it was that important to you?

You are not a failure and you have a right to your feelings. Screw people that tell us to grow up, right now let me f'ing wallow in it if I want. Bleh