I was chatting to T about something recently and T said, depends how comfortable you were with mess.

That sentence has stuck in my mind. T's been away so not been able to continue it. But I'm seeing that topic everywhere at the moment. With me, and with others I have visited.

Someone I recently visited even had they're fridge magnets or lined up neat & tidy which made me think this person isn't comfortable with mess.

I'm sort of middle ground with it. Fairly tidy, laziness stopping me from being really tidy. But I realise in not comfortable with mess and want to be. I also feel very aware of being judged on my mess by those who are also uncomfortable with it, but perhaps lack the insight therapy can some on the topic

Hurry up back T! I want to talk about mess :-)