Hi Secretwhisper. It is good that you have been helping your friend and standing behind her. I know it gets hard, and causes worry. I agree with talking to someone at the hospital to let them know how bad off she really is. Maybe they could watch her better. I also know you cannot be with her 24/7. The best thing you can probably do for her at this point is to keep contact with her, continue to support her, and offer her love and compassion.

Don't neglect to take care of yourself though. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.