I email T. She is concerned with security. But she leaves it up to my discretion. It's my choice whether I email her or not, and my choice for the subject matter. I know the risks, so the responsibility? is on me.

I'm not concerned with securtiy and I have yahoo email. I know not to click on links, and my password is strong. And my fiance provides us with good Internet security. And like JunkDNA said, if someone does read my emails, they'll just find out how pathetic I am.

Plus, if I didn't email, I would have no evidence against ex-T for my grievance. It would all be he said, she said.