I guess it's hard to tell yelling in emails unless they use all caps, but her email came across as very harsh and insensitive to me, telling me what I can and can't talk about. Her attitude is basically you do what I tell you or I'm going to get mad at you. I really do think because she works on a military base, her attitude is very black and white. You can't be that way, and especially with someone who was emotionally abused and has low self esteem, to get mad at them because you're not following their "orders".

My goals changed from the beginning to now and I have communicated with her what I'd like to see happen, but now she's getting mad that I'm not suddenly cured after 3 whole months. I'm to the point where I don't even want to open up her emails because they just cause me stress.

I thought therapy was what you wanted it to be, but with her, I feel like it's her way or the highway.