I've gone NO CONTACT and it's great. Mom has tried over and over to bait me and, once she involved my 21 y/o daughters. (they don't much like grandma) that was the complete end. She only lives 1.5 miles from me. It's damn tough but I have peace most days. I plan to move sometime in the near future. My daughters are in college and now is not the time to move on...

My two sisters don't quite get it...mom doesn't do to them what she pulls on me. One sister is out of state and so that makes it easy...

For years I thought I couldn't go NC but now that I have, and it was a process over the last 3-4 years, I'll never go back. Mom is toxic, self-absorbed, controlling...NOPE!!!

Never looking back...