YES....... I have told him (we generally talk about everything openly & honestly) - he just seems unable to give at times - probably more of his issue than mine, but it still effects me.

And - YES - over all we do have a good marriage, but this one issue seems to always hit me hard..... I guess that is why I have finally decided to talk about it - I am wanting to cope & deal with this matter on a better emotional level than I am prsently doing - I tend to sulk more than I want.
... and while I know it is not about me and that nothing is wrong with me..... it still hurts inside.