Okay, those who are worried about becoming your parents, that is quite a normal instance. We all carry on characteristics of our parents most of them raised us for at least 18 years of our natural lives. However this is something as an individual you have some choice about. If you so chose you can change the way you saw things done by your parent and be a shining example of what not to do or how not to act. Hence the reason I don't like to drink, I take care of my mental health and I don't smoke any more. Also I am very loving and caring to my four and a half year old daughter and treat her like the precious little girl she is not an adult like I was constantly treated as.