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Old Sep 22, 2015, 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted by ruh roh View Post
I guess my issue is that it's just so paternalistic. Why would they stop at the email issue if they are concerned people can't assess risk for themselves? What about people who talk to friends in a desperate state, friends who might disclose their information to others? Should therapists stop that, too? I guess I have a problem with the therapist overstepping their role. If it's more of a concern that they don't have time, don't want to work for free, or that some issues are worsened through miscommunication via email, then they should say so. Any one of those reasons is fine with me, and also feels more respectful.
It can also be clinic policy. My T is relaxed so like six months into it he was like, "Oh, I need you to sign this waiver." It basically said "Email isn't secure."

They won't even let him schedule his own appointments. Once he got so sick of the front desk messing things up he was like, "I'm just going to put you in on this date... they're going to send me to therapist hell for this."
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