Welcome to Psych Central. Sorry you are feeling hurt after your gf broke off the relationship.

It is a story many people tell of a relationship crumbling and then trying to patch it back together again. I have never been able to do that. Once hope is gone in one person, unless there are overwhelming common threads that connect you, it is difficult to patch things up.

Many people who are actively involved in Psych Central find it helps take them out of their own problems to develop empathy for others. And their problems are more manageable the more they help others.

Anxiety Support Chat Friday at 8PM and Depression chat is 9PM EST on Thursday. Many people go there with other diagnoses so if you want to meet some people and find support there you are certainly welcome. And their are other chats too. When you have 5 posts you can check the schedule on the Calendar in the blue bar above.

Glad you are joining us here. Some people find the forums give them the compassion and empathy they seek. http://forums.psychcentral.com

Please feel free to private message me or any of the Community Liaisons by left clicking on the name in blue to the left of their post) for questions or just to share.