Guys can be sensitive - i think you are giving too much detail and trying to micro-manage him. You could say you were sorry for being out of touch but you were busy with school and stuff, then see if he wants to get together on saturday. If the answer is yes, then MAYBE talk about slowing things down when you see him, if he brings up wanting to get together again sooner than you want. Maybe he is fine with these 8 days off - maybe he was rushing or pushing to see you more because he thought thats what YOU wanted. Saying "the sex is for me" - not sure what that means?!