I sent my marriage counselor an e-mail about a month ago talking more about my transference for him (mostly paternal) and how safe I felt with him. I was nervous about being as candid/open as I was, and I actually did request that he respond, because otherwise I would have been freaking out it until our next session. He wrote a brief but caring/accepting response, which made me feel much better.

I've also sent "thanks for listening/caring" messages to both T and MC (didn't usually get a response, but that's OK). Last week, in person I thanked my T for being so supportive, adding that the way I said it probably sounded cheesy and I knew it was her job. She said didn't sound cheesy and that it was nice to hear sometimes.

So I totally understand your nervousness.