My husband and I are communicating better about raising our daughter, our most contentious subject over the years. It's amazing progress compared to where we were a few years ago actually. And we're investing in our relationship in a conscious way- weekly date nights are turning out to be really pleasant and lots of fun. I've reworked my job schedule to have more rest and free time with family too. At the same time, I'm building in space for myself to not feel too constrained in my marriage, which helps. I'm spending one night a week sleeping alone and just starting to spend one evening a week working on a p/t job I love that I'm going to be working to transition into fulltime soon.