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Originally Posted by newtus
well i meant with being lonely. also with your safety regarding around other people in the complex. also if you could tell me financially too thatd be great.
im thinking about living in an apartment when i goto university and im very scared for my safety. plus idk how im gonna afford it.
when i was in an apartment last time i had a roommate. which was a dud. the apartment rules were to bring no third parties inside the apartment because they were like dorms and she had brought in a homeless woman to sleep on the couch after i went to sleep. she also used my stuff like my microwave and never did the dishes or helped clean up her messes.
then i worry about my safety because 5-6 guys were banging on my windows saying "im gonna get you" and "we see you" and were harrassing me and i had to call the police.
it was a total catastrophe and i never lived there again and this was all in 1 week.
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i am scared for my safety here but it doesnt really affect me unless i go outside to smoke. when i go outside i get more paranoid especially at night. i feel safer inside my apartment which is different from my last one. the last one i lived in was in a very rural area, it was like 5 apartments on a farm. i constantly feared someone was going to break in and murder me. when i was psychotic i heard people out there moving things and talking about me. were you psychotic when the men were at your window?
the only roommate ive ever had was my sister and we werent in each others lives much then.
as far as financially, my disability pays my rent and electricity. bc i live in such a sketchy neighborhood my rent is low ($385 +water included). my mom pays my phone and internet. i still struggle month to month. having a job helps