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Originally Posted by LadyDestructo
My God, those snap notes are EXACTLY right! Last night we had a big talk for the first time in months. I expressed my frustration with my husband that I feel like he hasn't made a decision in months, maybe even years. I have been pushing back my feelings of anger and disappointment for fear of worsening his depression, but this spoke to me so much! Thank you, Vital! This was amazing.
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You're so welcome LadyDestructo. I do believe that those notes are the real stuff. I'm glad they helped. It sounds like you had a really good talk.
I'm sure it's super stressful and hurtful and horrible for you to have to go through this with someone you need to be able to rely on. The fact that he wants to go to couples therapy has got to be a good sign. As difficult it is, it sounds like you should hang on and see how things go in therapy and see if your hubby is able to take some other positive steps.
- vital