I am a member of the bipolar community forums, but my boyfriend has ADHD. He has always had a short fuse. Yesterday we had a fight because when he called me to ask me why my van door was open, I was in the middle of getting my 3 yr old (who likes to fight it) down for a nap at the same time my 9 month old was whining/crying. So he called after he drove by on his way to run some errands and asked, Why are your van doors open? And I responded by saying I DONT ****ING KNOW! So that all ended up escalating with him coming home, busting through to door and coming at me while im on the couch with my 9 month old..he pushes me around, screams in mt face, spits on me, and hits me in the arms and legs.

So my question is, does having a short temper and agressive behavior come with the territory of having ADHD? Anyone have any experience with that or have any insight?