Pat,

I think that is horrible that he is coming around your home. You need to be very careful & don't go out alone.

I remember how I felt with that home care person for my Mother......she knew that I filed a report with Adult Protective Services against her the day after she OD'ed my Mother.....when I walked out to my car that morning to go file the police report & then go to the hospital to be with my Mother.....I was afraid to even get into the car to drive it for fear she had done something to it.......then when I was on the way to the police station, as I was coming up to the corner to turn to the police station.....she was following me in the car right behind me.

Needless to say, I never went back to stay in my Mothers house after that since I was alone & really was afraid of what she might do to keep me quiet.

Your fear of him should be very real.....especially if he is using.....you never know what their minds will tell them to do in order to protect themselves......& their judgments aren't very good considering what he did to you financially.

Take care of yourself......& beware & be safe....most of all. Glad you called the police. At least they are aware that he is around your house.....maybe that will make him think twice before trying anything.

Don't mean to scare you......just want you to take care of yourself.....these people can't be trusted....they are horrible,

You are in my prayers,
Debbie