I thought I'd update. My son and I had a meet-and-greet session with his possible T tonight. It went well. We played a "getting to know you" board game. My son opened up to him pretty quickly about his dad issues. He also said some very touching things about me. Things he admires about me. It was a great experience. He wants to go back, so we'll work on some sort of schedule. Whether it be once a week, or two, or once a month, or just whenever he wants to schedule one, I will let him decide.