BreakForTheLight: No, I am sorry! I get triggered easily and automatically assume the worste because of my hypersensibility. I assumed sarcasm or passive aggressiveness when you just tried to make a joke about the 'secretly'. Glad we cleared that up thank you!

pindakaas: The moderators need to authorize your first posts to make sure it's not spam and it will appear after they approved it. You can't even send a private message until you made 3 posts. I will send you a PM since I'm also more comfortable with more privacy!