I understand what you are saying but if you have no interest in regular communication with him it means you keep it casual or taking it slow, which is both very much fine. It just seems unnecessary to me to have sex if you think it's ok not to reply for 8 days. If you want to stay just casual friends with him it is great. I kept it slow with my BF for 3 months. I just suggest don't sleep with him. Also you might want to politely tell him how much communication you want . Giving hints don't usually work

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