Uh, that's not good. You aren't conscious enough to give consent and even though you're married, consent is still a MUST. He's performing rape. And from another man's perspective, it's just plain wrong. I'm genuinely scared for you.

What's he's doing absolutely must stop now. No if's or but's. And personally I think you need to get somewhere safe. He needs serious therapy and I think you need to take a really good look at the situation. Does this need to be reported?